The Acquired Taste

I'm an acquired taste. Many people try me once and gag. Some come back again, give it another try and eventually, I become a habit. Huh? Mr. Cranky...

Hank O’Donnell on Hero Syndrome

Hank O'Donnell is a Philadelphia-based Business Coach. I met Hank O'Donnell several years ago when I attended a Vistage Coach Training Seminar in Leesburg Virginia and Hank led several of the sessions. I was a relatively new Vistage Coach at that time and O'Donnell as a veteran coach was working with a group of coaches to help us hone our craft. This was back when Vistage still invested heavily in Coach Training (see Why I Quit Vistage). Since then I've moved on as has Hank O'Donnell but I still learn from him via his emails and video blogs. Here's a great example of one of his videos. Watch and learn as Hank drops leadership knowledge. Quoting from Hank: I've discovered a major flaw in many leaders — myself included. I call it The Hero Complex, and it creates what Dr. Stephen Karpman calls The Drama Triangle. I love to rescue people! It made me feel good to solve my team’s problems, but after a while, it became exhausting. I’d become the “victim” myself, and they became the “persecutors.” I’d find myself saying, “Why don't they take responsibility and first try to tackle problems on their own? Why do they always come to me?” What I didn’t...

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The #1 Tip For Being a Better CEO

What's the #1 tip for being a better CEO? One sign you're able to become a better CEO is that you're reading articles like this because you're curious and dedicated to being better. If you believe you're the best CEO you could be you might consider my #2 tip for being what you can't be...

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Vistage Coach… Why I Quit

Vistage Coach - why I'm no longer that Ten years ago, when I first started as a Vistage Coach. It was a new world for me. I fell in love with my new profession. The screening process was grueling, the training process challenging. Every day I learned something new about myself, people and leadership. I loved the science and the art of coaching. At the end of that process, I was deemed a Vistage Coach...

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Becoming a Collaborative Leader?

Should I Become A Collaborative Leader or should I be an authoritarian? Should I seek outside advice, join a peer advisory group or hire an executive coach? And if so, why? Simple… it’s the difference between authoritarian hierarchical failure or collaborative success. An Eastern Airlines L1011 crashes into the everglades while approaching Miami Airport. A United Airlines DC8 runs out of fuel 6 miles prior to landing at Portland Or. A Chinese Airline approaching San Francisco banks hard...